Not making progress? Stop this right now!!
I wish I had this list a few years back when I was really busy teaching myself how to become an EXPERT at getting in my own way - true story!
The thing is, when you're right in the thick of life, it's so hard to actually spot what is holding you back and where you can just make some small shifts to start moving forward again. I didn’t even realise I was stuck! I was just getting mega frustrated that I wasn’t in the life I really wanted despite trying all of the things!
I have carefully curate…
The #1 strategy for a good day
The good news: We can control our own responses. We can control how we show up every day because remember:
A bad moment doesn’t have to turn into a bad day.
There are steps that we can take every day to help us with the ups and downs…
I'm going to put this out there, every answer is wrong until you find the balance that works for you and anyone else who is an important part of your life.
In the first instance, you need to define what 'balance' means to you, create your own definition. What does it look and feel like? How will your energy levels and clarity of thought be?
In order to take a good h…
5 ways to handle drains with ease
You'll know you're experiencing a drain, if you dread picking up the phone to that person because they always talk about themselves in conversations, without being that interested in what you have to say, they share problems without considering solutions or ways forward, they stay in negativity and cloud you with it…
Doing the RIGHT Stuff for the RIGHT REASON
If you're anything like me, every week you'll have something that triggers you to suddenly catch yourself and think "whaaaat? Where's the week gone? It can't be this time next week already?!" I noticed this a lot when I first stepped into part time work and had a 'Business Development Wednesday'.
It was actually quite an eye-opener to notice what had or hadn't happened between Wednesday's and how a week can disappear in a flash. Life is busy at the best of times right?! You're juggling work, pl…
Are you ready to change your story?
Look back at the last 6 months - are you happy with what you've achieved? Are you regretting not getting started on something earlier?
Do you know that you could have tried harder, yet you couldn't just find the motivation and willpower to stick at it?
We've all been there.
Before you begin down a pathway of self blame, regret and …
Managing your inner critic
I want to share my 3 top tips for effectively handling that inner voice when it's not being kind or helpful.
We all have that voice, we play out the words as if they are coming from our own mouths. It happens so often that most people find themselves listening to it without even realising. Its the same voice saying you've got this, as well as telling you the story which creates a negative impact.
So here goes - your super quick, 3 top tips for keeping that inner critic in check!
1. Change the …
Keep Focused - 3 Ideas to Help
1. Keep visual reminders nearby; on sticky notes on or inside cupboards, using the background on your phone or keeping a note in your back pocket. 2. Use the alarm or calendar feature on your mobile to remind you of your intention. Or use it to help you prompt a h…
Is it OK to be comfortable?
When it feels as though you are sitting of the edge of a precipice about to take a step into something that scares you, that can create range of emotions, perhaps excitement, nervousness or fear. Sometimes the things we fear or dread the most, are the very same things that will provide incredibly rich learning experiences, re-energise us (once achieved), change our mindset, or even change our lives. Thinking about life as you know it, right now, this second....
- What is worrying you, or niggli…